tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5426359561575015762.post2688637268498837239..comments2009-03-26T16:57:43.998-04:00Comments on OMG. It's JO!: Emotional rollercoasterJoLissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01713167559404464554noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5426359561575015762.post-88750367184654070882008-12-23T09:03:00.000-05:002008-12-23T09:03:00.000-05:00Hey Jo, noticed your comment from the blogess. An...Hey Jo, noticed your comment from the blogess. And against my better judgment I'm hopping in here on your heartache.<BR/><BR/>This is MOST of the time, MOST of the men - I'm not saying guy #1 might not be great or wonderful or truly different, but from what I've seen MOST of the guy #1s out there go back to their old ways as soon as they have you back or shortly thereafter. MOST LIKELY he'll eventually go back to however he was hurting you before. <BR/><BR/>The only way I've really seen guys truly change and STAY "the good boyfriend" (fiancee, husband) is if they have made the decision after a major life changing event (someone close to them dies or almost dies, they are TRULY saved/reborn, that kind of thing). <BR/><BR/>Guy #2...I think "into me and I know it" can be scary, but can be worth it if things work out. No way to tell unless you try, which it seems like you're doing.<BR/><BR/>Guy #3 - People take their chances & get hurt. As long as you're as honest as you can be with them AND yourself, it's just the price you pay for being a human being. You can't hope to get out without getting hurt or hurting, but you can do the best you can to be fair to yourself and to them and to be able to look back and think, "I did the best I could at the time." <BR/><BR/>Good luck and hope you're having a decent vacation, even in Texas. :-)Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10439582294571462742noreply@blogger.com